Life & Relationship Coaching with Lexi Sylver
PRIVATE COACHING
1:1 & 2:1 Life & Relationship Coaching with Lexi Sylver
Enhance and create the fulfilling sex life and relationships you truly want — and deserve.
I'm Lexi — accredited life and relationship coach, public speaker, award-winning author, and your shameless guide to Exploring your Lexuality!
I help unfulfilled people and couples to unf*ck their relationships and explore their authentic needs and desires so they can experience more pleasure and thrive in all areas of their lives.
If you want to know how private coaching with me can help you in your life and relationships, let's talk — I would love to hear your story.
Calling all couples — do any of these sound familiar?
🚩 You feel frustrated, jealous, resentful, angry, sad, lonely, mistrustful, ignored, hopeless, powerless, and/or stuck in your life and/or relationship.
🚩 You miss feeling desired, but don't know how to re-light that spark and "new relationship energy" you used to have with your partner.
🚩 You or your partner(s) have trouble expressing or responding to each other's feelings, needs, fantasies, or boundaries. No matter how much you try to communicate, you don't feel truly heard.
🚩 You're fed up with having the same arguments over and over, without any real resolution or improvement.
🚩 You and/or your partner(s) feel like trust has been broken (lying, cheating, etc.) and you're not sure how — or if — it can be repaired.
🚩 There never seems to be the "right time" to connect, resolve disagreements, or approach important conversations.
If you found yourself nodding along to any of the above, it's time to explore Lexual coaching!
Meet your shameless coach
That's me — I'm Lexi Sylver®, and it's my pleasure to inspire you to take your relationship and sexuality to the next level, and to arm you with the advice you need to smoothly navigate the rough spots along the way.
As your coach, I reserve judgment while observing patterns in the way you and your partner(s) interact, identifying your triggers and reactions to different situations. We'll uncover the underlying core emotions at work in any unhealthy ways you approach or respond to each other, and get you on a healthier track.
I'm NOT here to point fingers, be a referee, or determine who's right or wrong. My goal is to help you learn that you and your partner(s) are on the SAME team rather than opponents facing off. That mindset alone can truly enhance your connection, communication, and compassion.
My personal recipe? I blend my 10+ years as an educator and life and relationship coach with my own lived experiences, add a healthy dash of explicit frankness, and guide you to discover your own answers — informed by my international coaching accreditation with The Coaching Masters and insights from my Psychology education (B.A.).
If you're struggling, you're not alone
Most of us don't learn relationship or communication skills at school, and there's just soooo much information out there. How can we know what advice will really work for us, and how to realistically apply it to our specific lives and relationships?
As we evolve over time, so do our relationships. It's not always easy to share our feelings, needs, and desires without worrying we'll be judged or hurt our partner's feelings — and it can be just as hard to hear and respond to what they want to tell us.
Relationships take effort, especially when we're trying to repair, evolve, and improve them. It's easy to fall into old habits and comfortable patterns, but that will never help you achieve your goals or fulfill your unmet needs. If you feel trapped or like you're going in circles, you won't break that cycle until you feel empowered (or fed up!) enough to take the first step.
There's no one-size-fits-all solution. The worksheets, exercises, and tools we develop together are tailored to your specific goals, harness your strengths, and fill the gaps in your knowledge or skills — helping you achieve success early on while making long-lasting, profound improvements you can realistically stick to.
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What clients say
"Lexi, talking to you is like having a badass older cousin who cares and isn't afraid to tell you what you NEED to hear, even if the truth is tough. Your perspective and understanding helped us achieve the open relationship and sex life we've always wanted!"
J.Y. & L.Y.
Montreal, Quebec, Canada
"Lexi, you are fantastic. Clara and I enjoyed immensely our coaching session with you. You are very knowledgeable and experienced. It is a joy to speak so openly and get an answer based on experience and from your heart. Any couple or person reading this should feel confident Lexi is a pro and a wonderful person."
Jay & Clara
Dallas, Texas, USA
"Your advice helped us overcome major changes in our sex drives and increased the level of intimacy between us. I don't think anyone else could have given us the expert tips and perspective you did. Thanks, Lexi!"
K.V. & M.F.
Los Angeles, California, USA
"Before we met Lexi, my boyfriend and I were in a major sex rut and had trouble telling each other what we wanted. Lexi really listened to us, taught us the communication skills we needed, and helped us figure out what we both wanted. Now, over a year since we started coaching, we're loving the open relationship we've created. We don't know what we'd do without her!"
Jacquelynn & Mark
Atlanta, Georgia, USA
I'm in! How do we get started?
Lexual exploration begins by empowering you to free yourself from others' (and your own!) bullsh*t expectations and judgment, so you can make space to live authentically and in alignment with who you truly are.
Once we discover what's holding you back from deeper, more satisfying, more connected relationships — with yourself and others — we can break down those obstacles so you can live freely and THRIVE.
The first step is booking your FREE coaching discovery call with me.
More coaching details
All coaching sessions are 100% virtual. During booking, you'll have the option of video (preferred!) or audio only. I'm fully bilingual and can coach in English or French.
Questions? Email me at lexi@lexisylver.com or contact me here.
Life & Relationship Coaching FAQ
Do you work with monogamous couples?
Yes! Whether you define yourselves as monogamous, monogamish, open, curious, swingers, polyswingers, polyamorous, or anything in between — I've got you covered.
Do you do 1:1 coaching?
Yes I do! I work with a lot of individuals who are looking to explore new things and need guidance to figure out their desires, feelings, and kinks, and to become more confident in themselves, their bodies, and their relationship and sexual skills.
That said, if you're looking for help in your relationship, I strongly recommend working with you AND your partner(s) for the best chance of success. Depending on your needs, I can tailor your program to combine one-on-one and partnered sessions.
How long do your coaching programs last?
Great question! In your free discovery call, we'll explore what you (and/or your partner) want to achieve. Based on your needs, feelings, and desires, I design a program and time frame with enough room to reach your goals and support you through each step.
Generally, my coaching programs range from 6 hours to 6 months. All coaching packages can be paid in installments — if that's your preference, we can create a payment schedule that works for everyone.
How much is private coaching?
That depends on how many sessions we'll need to help you (and your partner(s)) achieve your sex, dating, and/or relationship goals. After our initial consultation call, I'll share my recommended program and the rates associated with your package. All packages can be paid in installments.
Are coaching sessions recorded?
With your consent, I prefer to record our sessions so you can play them back later and see how you've grown — and revisit them if you ever feel yourself sliding back into old habits. After each session, your recording is uploaded to a secure cloud folder for you to download, along with all the worksheets and materials we've worked on together. Nobody else has access except you, me, and your partner(s).
Do you ever turn down coaching clients?
Occasionally, yes. In our initial call, I can better assess whether the help you need is within my scope. For instance, I'm not a doctor or psychiatrist, so I can't diagnose or treat mental health issues — if I can't help you effectively, I'd rather recommend someone who can. I've also turned down clients who behave inappropriately or disrespectfully; I have a zero-tolerance policy for anyone who doesn't respect my professional boundaries.
Book your FREE discovery call
Ready to take the first step? Pick a time below and let's talk. The discovery call is 100% free, with zero obligation.