Courses
I'm Lexi Sylver, award-winning educator, author, and internationally accredited relationship and open-lifestyle coach. My Swinging 101 video courses share everything I wish I'd known about swinging, ethical non-monogamy, and the open lifestyle — from breaking the ice and creating a sexy dating profile to handling it when things go sideways. New here? Start with my newbie picks below.
★ Recommended for Newbies
New here? Start with these.
Brand new to swinging and the open lifestyle? These four courses are the perfect first step — the myths and facts, how to break the ice, building a profile that gets noticed, and what to do if things don’t go as planned. Browse the full catalog below.

Newbies in the Open Lifestyle
Start here. Myths, facts, and first steps into swinging and the open lifestyle.
$25

WTF to Do When Swinging Goes Wrong
When things don’t go as planned — recover, repair, and move forward.
$25
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