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The Art of Eating Pussy: Part 3

Article by Arwen

Welcome back to Lexi Sylver's new series, The Art of Eating Pussy! In the final part of this series, Arwen, my sexy lesbian friend, will impart some wisdom about the ins and outs of cunnilingus for all of you.

So you're a woman who loves women. And it has all come down to this – you two are going to make sweet, sweet love. Sex basically comes in two forms with lesbians; oral sex and physical sex with use of hands and sex toys.

If you missed them, click here to read Part 1 and Part 2 of this series.

The Art of Eating Pussy: Part 3 of the Sex Advice Series via Lexi Sylver

So You're Muff Diving For The First Time

Remember that you are both there to have fun! One or both of you may be nervous as well as excited, especially the first time The two of you should make sure that you are enjoying yourselves with orgasm as not the end goal. The end goal is to connect and enjoy your time together.

I love having oral sex performed on me, but I cannot orgasm from it at all! Does that mean the person eating me out sucks? Hell no – it is just another aspect of my body. So be aware that if your partner doesn’t orgasm, it doesn’t mean you are doing a horrible job. Sometimes it can take a few sessions to learn what your partner likes and how their bodies respond.

Also remember that consent is a good thing to know and practice. Understand that if your partner is not comfortable at any point, she can ask for the oral sex to stop and that is ok. Consent is sexy!

Hygiene is also really important. If you don’t feel comfortable with the smell or taste of the woman, then stop. It is not wrong to ask someone to gently clean up before starting out with oral sex. Remember that women do have certain scents and flavors associated with how turned on they are, and this is different from an unhygienic person.

Before having oral sex, you should ask your partner if she uses a dental dam for oral sex or not. A dental dam is a large sheet or latex which is placed on the outside of the vaginal region to practice safe sex.

Ready To Chow Down?

So you both are naked and horny messes, waiting in anticipation. You are about to go down on your woman for the first time. But what do you do!?

Start by gently kissing her from her navel down to her inner thighs. Enjoy hearing her breathing change as she gets increasingly turned on. Linger around her inner thighs and then start to slowly let your kisses flow on her outer labia. Some women like it to be tender or a bit more pressure here, so don’t be scared to ask if she wants more pressure if you are not getting a response from the sounds of her breathing or moaning.

Continue inwards to the inner labia. Enjoy her clit at this point. You can gently rub your tongue against it. Her clit should be starting to get hard and erect. I like to gently take the inner labia in my mouth and let my tongue roam the region. This keeps the area warm and moist and allows for a more steady pressure. When I feel the clit starting to get hard and my woman is beginning to thrust her hips up, then I know it’s time for action.

At this point it’s good to start licking the clit from top to bottom back to top again. Pay attention to what feels good for your partner. Not all women enjoy just having one place flicked the entire time. This is your time to try different moves. I really like to go from licking to softly sucking on my partner’s clit. It really gets her excited and deeply turned on. For some women this is not enough to orgasm from, but it’s a great prelude and way to make sure that she is enjoying herself and getting in the mood.

Sexy Woman Lying on Bed

Some women really enjoy getting fingered while having their clits licked. I would ask before doing this, especially if this is the first time you both are having sex. If she likes the idea of it, then start off with one finger. There is absolutely no need to go full throttle all at once. Let the way she responds determine your next moves. Is she really getting into this? Then add another finger and go for some G spot stimulation. Is she pressing her hips towards your mouth? Then be a bit stronger with your tongue on her clit. Listen to her sounds and her moves. Some women are less vocal then others and then you really need to pay attention to the way her body is moving and writhing.

By this point you may have found a specific spot on her clit that makes her lose control. Typically this is near or on the tip of the clit, but it is not always that case. It is not always clear when your woman is going to start to enter the throes of orgasm, but generally this may cause her to grab your hair, really thrust into your face or moan more deeply. When she's at this stage, continue to do whatever you are doing and don’t stop. It is true that women do need consistent pressure and touching in the same region to be able to orgasm. She may even want you to slightly increase the pressure of your tongue on her clit.

Make sure not to focus so hard that your movements become robotic. There is nothing less sexy than looking at the person who is eating you out and them being really mechanical. Remember to enjoy yourself as well. That means taking the time to explore her skin and her tastes - to be able to find pleasure in giving another woman pleasure. Make eye contact, smile, tell her she looks, sounds, and tastes good! There is nothing sexier than knowing the person going down on you is enjoying themselves and finding you to be delicious in every way.

I hope you enjoyed my tips. Let me know if you have any you'd like to share with me.

Arwen

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